 With this thought in my mind, I was blessed more by attracting people to me. (May be magnetism, law of attraction,) all I know for sure is that it is a gift. I am always asked what to do in this situation or that.
People come to me to talk, to express their feelings, share their thoughts, men and women, senior and junior,Sometimes kids too.
This is a major gift that I adore, appreciate, respect and ask GOD to keep it for me. Inside me I have concern of the advice I give to anybody lest it is not right or can influence them to take an inappropriate decision.
From this honest and sincere concern, I started my way in search for what I need to acquire of knowledge and expertise to know quite well how to support and help people in their lives keeping the balance of when to offer my opinion and when to let them listen carefully to themselves and find their own truth. This is what I ascertain in this new field "Coaching".
A great burden and a big responsibility, however it makes me extremely happy.
There have been people in my life; who have hurt me and caused me real pain. But from where I stand now, I realize that those pains were milestones in my life and were turning points. I succeeded in relieving my negative feelings towards some of them and I am working on the rest too. I dream of a day when I hold no bit of negative feelings towards any creature on earth.
Negative feelings do not affect others they affect us. They are like corrosive actions. They corrode our souls, our spirits, and our faith in others as well as how we see ourselves and our life.
Letting our negative feelings grow inside us is a self corrosive mechanism by which we turn our whole life to hell and prevent ourselves from really enjoying who we are and the good things that life is bringing to us.
We are not as rigid as we think we are. We are not as we were one minute ago. We have control over who we are, what we want to do and who we really want to be. This is a lesson I have learned.
Every event in my life led to the other. I do my duty to myself. I analyze the event. I try to understand what happened, search for knowledge or information, clues for why. I question myself what I have done? What was wrong? What was right? Sometimes I was self defeated, sometimes it took longer by far than I expected.
Long times I suffered from the feeling of being hurt, not as appreciated as I needed or as I dreamed of , not finding my dreams come true. On the other hand, I was always surrounded by supporting groups of loving, caring people. By them I was given a sense of direction.
Instead of focusing on myself, my pains, what I lack, I chose completely to concentrate on others. I chose to grow my circle of friends and support groups. I chose to fully tune in to them, understand their needs, help them be better and achieve what they are looking for in their lives. I don't want anyone to experience the same suffering. But I am not responsible for them either.
So I came to better Understanding day by day through the coaching profession.
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Yasmin Abouelhassan
Certified Comprehensive Coach
President and Founder
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